{"id":178,"date":"2019-01-13T20:51:07","date_gmt":"2019-01-13T20:51:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/desteapta.ro\/?p=178"},"modified":"2019-01-20T13:18:41","modified_gmt":"2019-01-20T13:18:41","slug":"de-5-ani-si-un-pic-si-s-fericita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/desteapta.ro\/?p=178","title":{"rendered":"de 5 ani \u0219i un pic \u0219i-s fericit\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p> (articol publicat ini\u021bial ca noti\u021b\u0103 pe pagina de facebook)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>un fel de TL;DR &#8211; C\u00e2\u021bi dintre voi lucra\u021bi de mai bine de 5 ani \u00een acela\u0219i loc, \u00een mod con\u0219tient, \u0219i sunte\u021bi ferici\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Contextul \u00een care scriu poate e unul atipic pentru mine, dar e un exerci\u021biu relevant pe care am ales s\u0103-l fac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asear\u0103 m-am \u00eentors de la Drobeta (unde a fost o zi magic\u0103 pentru c\u0103 s\u0103 zbori cu parapanta e magic, dar ieri chiar a fost special, dar despre acest lucru \u00eentr-un alt episod sau exerci\u021biu, spune\u021bi-i cum vre\u021bi) cu <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/danut.dem?eid=ARC7NieylDEVjdexx74wErBNQKoAKr_lMSW4QczCCSWEcCSL3Whf6pfS3HivFB0NBIA1lXnEzRylyqx1\">D\u0103nu\u021b St\u00eeng\u0103<\/a>, cu care m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor, a\u0219a cum a fost toat\u0103 ziua de ieri, pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare pentru <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/daniela.borontis?eid=ARBeTbl3sNLmd05NiRMRvEFq-pVfYGfE3xFjDAvlUwocb4cbyUz16Sj9VhqiCsWM92tRSOhSVtf-7MAb\">Daniela<\/a>, \u00een gara la Severin (nu m\u0103 repet, at\u00e2ta c\u0103 ora\u0219ul acesta are dou\u0103 nume, unul pentru oaspe\u021bi \u0219i unul pentru locuitorii lui).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u0103nu\u021b e senior la noi \u00een organiza\u021bie, adic\u0103 un t\u00e2n\u0103r de 19 ani care crede \u00een cercet\u0103\u0219ie. [\u00cen timp ce am povestit cu el, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 am ocazia s\u0103 le spun o dat\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bilor lui c\u0103 e un b\u0103iat fain, a\u0219a c\u0103 mam\u0103\/ tat\u0103 de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/danut.dem?eid=ARCjRZhzqHKmzWQD3HIGji8m33RtZgFH7-DhCmCG-8zYKu_79lhXT5yFu_kvCI7voZadFsdN1KKwF9fG\">D\u0103nu\u021b<\/a> dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi pe re\u021belele de socializare, profit de ocazie s\u0103 v\u0103 mul\u021bumesc \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103 apreciez pentru modul \u00een care l-a\u021bi educat]. D\u0103nu\u021b asear\u0103 mi-a pus vreo 2 ore la r\u00e2nd multe \u00eentreb\u0103ri, curgeau una dup\u0103 alta \u0219i parc\u0103 sim\u021beam c\u0103 le avea deja undeva ordonate numai c\u00e2t a\u0219tepta s\u0103 m\u0103 prind\u0103 o dat\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 ancheteze. De fapt, erau 4-5 \u00eentreb\u0103ri cred, poate curiozit\u0103\u021bi ale unui t\u00e2n\u0103r, obi\u0219nuite, dar care antrenau \u00een mine mult\u0103 reflec\u021bie: de c\u00e2nd lucrezi la cerceta\u0219i? c\u00e2t mai vrei s\u0103 lucrezi la cerceta\u0219i? de ce ai ales s\u0103 lucrezi \u00eentr-un ONG? cum ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 faci voluntariat \u0219i de ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ast\u0103zi mi-a ap\u0103rut pe facebook fotografia de acum 5 ani, era imediat dup\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnirea de uimire ca parte din procesul de onbording. \u00cent\u00e2lnirea de uimire a fost un weekend la <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/NocrichScoutCentre\/?eid=ARAH-mcWdB2RGtcpsM5BmmA3A216O5LwqgjXNBm9m__u6iSOx3TRRNVFHAmEbQfT-H1O3pW_P4i4Zda8\">Nocrich Scout Centre<\/a> \u00een care 15 oameni au \u00eencercat s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 \u00eentr-un singur weekend ce au f\u0103cut cerceta\u0219ii \u00een ultimii 20 de ani de activitate. 20 de ani de activitate \u0219i pe vremea aia poate 3500 de membri, cerceta\u0219i activi, care aveau activit\u0103\u021bi s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nale. \u00cemi amintesc perfect c\u0103 am scris un caiet de matematic\u0103 cu noti\u021be atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/desteapta.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/1544445_10201281309220979_1512977848_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-181\" width=\"440\" height=\"330\" srcset=\"https:\/\/desteapta.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/1544445_10201281309220979_1512977848_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/desteapta.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/1544445_10201281309220979_1512977848_n-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/desteapta.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/1544445_10201281309220979_1512977848_n-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 440px) 85vw, 440px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Tot D\u0103nu\u021b m-a \u00eentrebat asear\u0103 cum am cunoscut-o pe Dana (de la onomastic\u0103 c\u0103reia m\u0103 \u00eentorceam). \u0218i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 scriu rar, foarte rar, azi m-am chinuit un pic prin google calendar s\u0103-mi dau seama la ce eveniment am \u00eent\u00e2lnit-o prima dat\u0103. \u0218i tot azi, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd, am g\u0103sit invita\u021bia de la promisiunea mea de cerceta\u0219, care cuprinde c\u0103l\u0103toria primului meu an la cerceta\u0219i, lun\u0103 de lun\u0103, cu detalii despre lucrurile tr\u0103ite \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021bate. \u0218i mi-a fost drag ast\u0103zi s\u0103 o recitesc \u0219i aproape s\u0103 o retr\u0103iesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am promis anul acesta c\u0103 dac\u0103 ratez s\u0103 fac un lucru pe care mi l-am propus, am s\u0103-l \u00eenlocuiesc. Mi-am dorit s\u0103 aplic la \u0218coala de comunicare de la <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/khastalia\/?eid=ARBmYEWFXqVLkCfFNZPl2REXqf-pncG1y_0skqG5y5hBK2O7gLXW7qCMNh5PI4g1SqIz866vJhOP5rPp\">Khastalia<\/a> \u0219i am ratat \u00eenscrierea, a\u0219adar am decis s\u0103 scriu aceast\u0103 noti\u021b\u0103 ca exerci\u021biu de comunicare, de \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ire.\u0218tiu c\u0103 numai \u00eencerc\u00e2nd, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u00e2nd, po\u021bi progresa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiu c\u0103 dac\u0103 a\u0219 comunica mai mult \u0219i mai bine din ceea ce fac eu \u0219i ceea ce fac cerceta\u0219ii \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, \u0219ansa ca mai mul\u021bi tineri s\u0103 poat\u0103 beneficia de programul educa\u021bional cercet\u0103\u0219esc ar cre\u0219te exponen\u021bial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu am fost niciodat\u0103 un lider marketizator cum \u00eei spun eu, cu aplecare natural\u0103 spre comunicare, mi-au pl\u0103cut mereu excel-urile, structurile, strategiile, procesele cu cap \u0219i coad\u0103. \u00cens\u0103 mi-a pl\u0103cut mereu s\u0103 inventez cuvinte, s\u0103 scriu scrisori la prieteni (probabil fenomen pe cale de dispari\u021bie). Am \u00eencredere c\u0103 pot \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba s\u0103 comunic mai bine \u0219i s\u0103 nu m\u0103 pierd \u00een detalii ca acum \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i mai ales contextul \u00een care scriu poate e unul atipic pentru mine, pentru c\u0103 eu scriu despre mine doar pentru mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>De c\u00e2nd lucrezi la cerceta\u0219i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lucrez la cerceta\u0219i de 5 ani \u0219i un pic \u0219i-s fericit\u0103. Asta i-am r\u0103spuns asear\u0103 lui D\u0103nu\u021b. (Nu m\u0103 \u00eentrebase cum m\u0103 simt.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0103 simt cerceta\u0219 \u00een construc\u021bia mea de om, \u00eemi amintesc c\u00e2nd am deschis scout.ro prima dat\u0103 \u0219i am citit valorile cercet\u0103\u0219iei mi-am zis foarte simplu asta-s eu, de ce nu sunt aici? Am aplicat pe fug\u0103 \u00een timp ce \u00eemi f\u0103ceam bagajele pentru Praga, ce a urmat dup\u0103, a fost la fel &#8211; f\u0103ceam x \u00een timp ce \u00eel terminam pe y \u0219i monitorizam z \u0219i \u00eemi doream v \u0219i scriam \u00een to do despre t. Dar am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 nu le mai fac pe fug\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen mod cert cercet\u0103\u0219ia m-a f\u0103cut un om mai bun. Nu-mi plac experien\u021bele care \u00ee\u021bi schimb\u0103 via\u021ba, \u00eemi plac experien\u021bele care \u00ee\u021bi continu\u0103 via\u021ba \u0219i \u021bi-o transform\u0103 \u00een mai bine \u0219i \u00een mai bun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>C\u00e2t mai vrei s\u0103 lucrezi la cerceta\u0219i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(tahicardie clar, ce r\u0103spund, ce zic ce, cum c\u00e2t?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am bucurat c\u0103 am putut s\u0103 r\u0103spund rapid: minim 2 ani, nu fac rabat niciodat\u0103 de la cuv\u00e2ntul dat, \u0219i pentru \u00eenc\u0103 2 ani sigur mi l-am dat. \u00cen timp ce spuneam asta, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam ce mai zic dup\u0103. D\u0103nu\u021b e totu\u0219i un t\u00e2n\u0103r care are nevoie de entuziasmul meu (\u0219i mie mi-a dat cineva c\u00e2ndva c\u00e2nd eram t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 zicem, \u00eencredere \u0219i curaj), dar eu nici de la autenticitate nu fac rabat niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Voi mai servi cercet\u0103\u0219ia at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t o s\u0103 m\u0103 reg\u0103sesc \u00een ea \u0219i at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t o s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 ceea ce fac, transform\u0103 lucrurile \u00een mai bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deocamdat\u0103 sunt recunosc\u0103toare c\u0103 am \u00eent\u00e2lnit oameni valoro\u0219i de la care am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u0219i de la care \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b, oameni pe care i-am luat ca modele \u00een via\u021ba mea de adult, oameni care m\u0103 cople\u0219esc cu energia lor. \u0218i sunt recunosc\u0103toare c\u0103 am avut ocazia s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc din tot ce \u0219tiam \u0219i s\u0103 fiu piesa de puzzle care construie\u0219te \u0219i d\u0103 mai departe, al\u0103turi de al\u021bi 5000 de oameni, cercet\u0103\u0219ia din Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i i-am mai spus c\u0103 s\u0103 lucrezi pentru cerceta\u0219i e greu. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/radu.stinghe?eid=ARAR3gxq8z8he7AGiKDnY3NfW3zMew_X76j2jU7g27eiRLlYZ0P88tNTv9Di0DEeKAteRogIsUsP0nxc\">Radu<\/a> scria recent un articol genial despre paper scout. S\u0103 fii cerceta\u0219 este cu siguran\u021b\u0103 un dar pe care \u00eel po\u021bi accepta \u0219i practica dac\u0103 te reg\u0103se\u0219ti \u00een el, dar s\u0103 lucrezi pentru cerceta\u0219i e un pic mai greu. Scriam zilele trecute c\u0103 cercet\u0103\u0219ia e o imensitate la fel ca \u0219i cerul. A\u0219a o resimt \u00een fiecare zi, cu bog\u0103\u021bia ei \u0219i cu complexitatea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>De ce ai ales s\u0103 lucrezi \u00eentr-un ONG?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am testat un an de \u0219coal\u0103, mi-am amintit cum a fost s\u0103 fiu prof\u0103, \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 \u0219i eu \u0219i copiii am pl\u00e2ns c\u00e2nd am plecat din \u0219coal\u0103. De altfel p\u0103strez \u0219i acum un urs, \u00eei zice Hapciu, pe care l-am primit de la elevii mei. Aveam cu 5-8 ani mai mult ca ei \u0219i eram \u00eentr-o minte cu ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ales pentru varietatea ac\u021biunilor, pentru valori, pentru flexibilitatea de a face lucrurile, o structur\u0103 neguvernamental\u0103; \u00een continuare cred c\u0103 este contextul cel mai potrivit pentru mine de a fi bine \u0219i de a putea face bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Cum ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 faci voluntariat \u0219i de ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Uau asta mi-a adus un pic de concentrare, era totu\u0219i ora 1 noaptea.) Mi-am amintit c\u0103 am terminat liceul pe vremea c\u00e2nd un singur coleg avea telefon nobil, un Nokia cu anten\u0103, care ar\u0103ta ca un receptor de telefon, pe care de altfel mi l-a \u0219i d\u0103ruit la un moment dat. (Adev\u0103ru-i c\u0103 am avut mereu oameni cerebrali \u0219i demni, de la care am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat. Era fiul unui profesor universitar, de la care am avut ocazia s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri, \u00eemi p\u0103sa mai pu\u021bin c\u0103 avea un telefon mobil).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu cred c\u0103 se numea voluntariat c\u00e2nd am terminat eu liceul. Vroiam s\u0103 ajut, s\u0103 \u00eempart, s\u0103 dau. Era at\u00e2t de natural pentru mine, \u00een continuare \u00eemi pare la fel de natural s\u0103 fac tot ce pot face astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t oamenii s\u0103 fie egali \u0219i mai ferici\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Nu e o transcriere fidel\u0103 a dialogului de ast\u0103noapte, ast\u0103zi am reflectat mult la ceea ce sunt \u0219i m\u0103 face zi de zi s\u0103 fiu.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil dac\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/mihaaciobanu?eid=ARCrjchxN2s5tcppfqzg3MCF7sFaNjWpHroJ7chU5Dr92p4Z25bpXvqCF0Frui34V4I11A9jqYfuDEv8\">Mihaela Ciobanu<\/a> \u0219i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/vlad.hodor?eid=ARAap6mASbel7TpHo4d4BKZYiyqMgjLGQEBHq4HA7YlNwBLYghzjDtDsH0AKxFJg1s9m-sJ5CXBFkPUf\">Vlad Hodor<\/a> s-ar fi \u021binut de cuv\u00e2nt \u0219i mi-ar fi luat de\u0219teapta.ro, acest articol ar fi parte din categoria Despre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar, independent\u0103 cum m\u0103 \u0219tiu, poate \u00een 2019 o s\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 scriu pe mihaelagirleanu.scout.ro ca s\u0103 nu se mai adune at\u00e2tea informa\u021bii la un loc pe care s\u0103-mi doresc s\u0103 le \u00eenghesui \u00eentr-un singur articol.  Asta e deja clasic, \u00een fiecare ianuarie spun c\u0103 voi scrie mai mult \u00een acest an. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(articol publicat ini\u021bial ca noti\u021b\u0103 pe pagina de facebook) un fel de TL;DR &#8211; C\u00e2\u021bi dintre voi lucra\u021bi de mai bine de 5 ani \u00een acela\u0219i loc, \u00een mod con\u0219tient, \u0219i sunte\u021bi ferici\u021bi? Contextul \u00een care scriu poate e unul atipic pentru mine, dar e un exerci\u021biu relevant pe care am ales s\u0103-l fac. 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